This is strange...I have a great friend who is a psychologist. She did a Myers Briggs on me that came back INFJ? She said my weird attractions to some girls are because I read them, and look to their hearts? I have to say, I date the sweetest girls. I am so blessed in that regard.

I don't mean to sound self-centered or anything, but it shocked me when she explained all of that to me. Looks are not entirely irrelevant to me, but it is about appreciating a woman's strengths. And pretty is secondary to things like intelligence, kindness, and virtue. It was a big lesson for me.