I have very good friend I have barely hugged. We get stoned, go to dinner, and have wonderful discussions about literature and BBC Masterpiece Mystery.

I have another friend where our relationship is only about sex. We have great conversation and wonderful times. But it is all centered around sex. It is a relationship that is fulfilling in ways OTHER than sex also. There is caring and love, and the freedom to not have to worry about hurting feelings if you don’t call for a few days. Or date others. You can even talk about it. Even the “I want to try something” situation. There is also the comfort in knowing if you are sad, that they will be there for you.

Look for a person’s strengths and treasure them. Don’t worry about their weaknesses.

This is great what you have written. Obviously not everyone will agree. But it doesn’t matter. Why deny yourself good sex because a person doesn’t like sports or whatever? Go with what they DO like.