I have been thinking about this for a month because I didn’t know what to say. I was looking at it from a selfish standpoint. You are supportive and often write on behalf of those who deal with insecurities.

I used to be fat. I run from insecurity in women. Fat is fine, insecurity is difficult to deal with from a guy’s standpoint.

YOU are the one trying to correct this by giving hope and guidance to those in need. Bless you. I hope that people will understand that “I am fat and I don’t care if you like it or not” is not a good way to be body positive. But that “Let’s find a way” is a GREAT WAY!!!

***Disclaimer. THIS IS IMPORTANT: The men who pounce on insecurity are bad people and usually abusers. It is a trap for those who are vulnerable.