For years I have tried to look at the good in a person, and my common interests with them. I have a friend, and we go to college sporting events. I've barely kissed her, but we are loyal in our support of the college. Another girl? German food and English literature. Again, nothing physical. Another friend? She and I adore each other, but we are friends, despite the fact that we have a wonderful physical relationship as well. I have a girlfriend type...what a nice thing to have so many people who you care about and relate well to...despite the fact that I relate to them all on different layers. The thing is, IT WORKS!!!