For as long as I can remember, I have looked at women for their strengths. I look at what I can connect with, not what I DON’T connect with.

I have a friend who is somewhat of a prude regarding sex. We both love getting stoned, German food, literature, and British BBC mysteries. I have another friend who I just relate to physically. She will spend hours fulfilling any fantasy I have, as I will for her. And then we go home. We have little in common otherwise.

My point is that if a person is a good friend, appreciate them for that. Because a good friend, however platonic, is still a good friend. We all have our strengths and weaknesses.