A few years ago the girl wanted me to send her a nude photo I had taken of her on the beach in the Bahamas years before. She wanted to send it to some guy. I explained that if she did, she should assume that everyone she knows might see it someday. She shook her head and dropped it.

A few days later she told me she had been thinking. It was a really great picture and that she didn't care if it got out. So I sent it. And yes, it did get out. Today we have a canvas print of it hanging upstairs in the hall.

Go figure.